Three years ago, (will be four in January), I started my business, 3 Strands Graphics. I had enjoyed designing invitations and birth announcements for friends and was approached about designing a magazine, besides the one I already did for my full time job. I had fun designing all day and then even when I got home. My full time job dissolved, so it worked out that I already had my business and my then boss would become my client. Three months later we found out we were pregnant, but unable to live on one income. God worked it out so that I could stay at home with Hallister and still work. Jonathan got to explore his talents by building me a website and setting up a network in our home. I started the business wanting to glorify God and have been very thankful for all the people I have met and got the opportunity to pray with. I have learned patience, with clients wanting change after change for an ad. I have learned forgiveness, by not receiving payment after doing many hours of work. I have learned how to design better and be more efficient. With all of this being said, there is a time for everything.Last month I attended a Women's Conference at my church with the theme of Thrive: Unlocked to Live your Destiny. I attended the break out session on Thriving in Motherhood given by Rachel Lee. I felt like God spoke to me that I need to simplify my life. I need to stop working and focus on being a mom. It wasn't what I wanted to hear but it would be a grave mistake to disobey. I am a multi-tasker and like to stay busy, but lately I have
been getting overwhelmed. I realized I have been doing too much. The most important job I have right now is to invest in my kids, and I don't want to look back and regret missing this time. In the break out session Rachel talked about getting up early and how important that is for your kids to see you reading God's Word. She use to let her kids wake her up and she was grumpy and would tell them to go get their own breakfast. Then she would wonder why her kids would whine and misbehave the rest of the day. They were just following the example set for them. Rachel started getting up early and speaking Bible verses over her kids throughout the day. She said of course, if your mornings are going to change your nights have to as well. I came home ready to Thrive. I am trying to get into bed by 10pm every night and I get up at 5:30am every morning to make sure I get in my time with Jesus. I really feel lately God is honoring me with more sleep. Preston is waking up less during the night.
been getting overwhelmed. I realized I have been doing too much. The most important job I have right now is to invest in my kids, and I don't want to look back and regret missing this time. In the break out session Rachel talked about getting up early and how important that is for your kids to see you reading God's Word. She use to let her kids wake her up and she was grumpy and would tell them to go get their own breakfast. Then she would wonder why her kids would whine and misbehave the rest of the day. They were just following the example set for them. Rachel started getting up early and speaking Bible verses over her kids throughout the day. She said of course, if your mornings are going to change your nights have to as well. I came home ready to Thrive. I am trying to get into bed by 10pm every night and I get up at 5:30am every morning to make sure I get in my time with Jesus. I really feel lately God is honoring me with more sleep. Preston is waking up less during the night.At the end of this month I will be closing my business. Since I have not had much business since Preston was born I am just trying to make enough to pay bills anyway. I am finishing up a prom magazine and will be designing a few Christmas cards and then will be done. Perhaps, on occasion, I will still design for friends if I feel peaceful about it. I am excited about having more time with the kids and with Jonathan. I want to invest in them and enjoy the time I have to teach them, before sending them out into the world. I want to make sure they have a firm foundation to stand on. Once the kids go to school perhaps I will be able to reopen or go back to school and develop my skills. Only God knows. For now, 3 Strands Graphics is getting put in time out.










